sama

December 23, 2025 (5d ago)

  • most people start wanting money
  • many end up wanting to build something meaningful
  • outlier success usually comes after baseline success
  • these ideas still apply to almost everyone

1. compound yourself

  • compounding is magic
  • look for exponential growth, not linear progress
  • choose careers and projects where learning and impact accelerate over time
    • avoid paths where 2 years = 20 years of experience
  • use leverage: capital, technology, brand, networks, people
  • aim to add another zero to your definition of success
    • let go of small opportunities for step-change ones
  • think long-term when others don’t
    • trust the exponential, be patient

2. have almost too much self-belief

  • self-belief is a force multiplier
    • most successful people believe in themselves almost to delusion
  • strong conviction enables contrarian thinking
  • managing morale requires confidence
    • ambition attracts resistance
  • balance self-belief with self-awareness
    • treat criticism as potentially true, then decide
    • truth-seeking separates confidence from delusion

3. learn to think independently

  • original thinking is rarely taught
    • schools reward conformity, not creativity
  • think from first principles
  • generate ideas and test them quickly in the real world
  • failure is expected; being right once matters
    • grit comes from solving “unsolvable” problems repeatedly

4. get good at sales

  • belief alone is not enough
  • all great careers involve persuasion
    • you must sell to customers, hires, investors, media
  • clear thinking leads to clear communication
    • written communication is especially valuable
  • selling what you believe in feels right
  • sales is learnable with practice
    • show up in person when it matters

5. make it easy to take risks

  • people overestimate risk and underestimate reward
  • early career is the best time to take risks
  • aim for asymmetric bets: lose 1x, win 100x
  • comfort makes risk-taking harder
    • avoid lifestyle inflation
    • keep life cheap and flexible when possible

6. focus

  • focus multiplies effort
  • choosing the right problem matters more than hours worked
    • most work people do doesn’t matter
  • once priorities are clear, execute aggressively
    • speed correlates strongly with success

7. work hard

  • smart or hard gets you to top 10%
  • smart and hard gets you to top 1%
  • extreme effort produces extreme results
    • momentum compounds
  • meaningful work is often energizing
  • working hard is not shameful
  • stamina predicts long-term success
    • work hardest early when compounding is strongest
  • avoid burnout by liking the work and the people

8. be bold

  • hard problems attract better people
  • ambition creates tailwinds
  • don’t downscale your goals to match trends
  • follow curiosity
    • exciting problems attract support

9. be willful

  • the world bends more than people expect
    • most people don’t push hard enough
  • ask for what you want
  • rejection is normal
    • persistence creates room for luck
  • optimism is required
    • pessimists rarely achieve extreme success

10. be hard to compete with

  • scarcity creates value
    • if others can do what you do, they eventually will
  • build leverage through:
    • personal relationships
    • personal brand
    • cross-domain expertise
  • avoid mimetic behavior
    • differentiation matters

11. build a network

  • great work requires teams
  • networks limit or expand what you can do
  • help people generously over time
  • take care of collaborators
    • share upside generously
  • push people to grow, not to burn out
  • define yourself by strengths, not weaknesses
    • hire complementary people
  • look for rate of improvement, not credentials
    • ask: is this person a force of nature?
  • spend time with people who support your ambitions

12. you get rich by owning things

  • salaries rarely create extreme wealth
  • ownership creates upside
    • equity scales; time does not
  • own things that grow rapidly in value
  • build things people want at scale

13. be internally driven

  • external validation leads to safe, consensus paths
    • it distorts risk assessment
    • smart people are especially vulnerable
  • internal motivation sustains long-term excellence
    • the best people aim to impress themselves
  • obsession is required for extreme success
  • success eventually becomes doing excellent work that matters to you

closing thought

  • opportunity is unevenly distributed
  • luck matters more than people admit
  • progress is still possible without privilege
  • long-term belief, effort, and persistence matter
  • start as early as you can

original: https://blog.samaltman.com/how-to-be-successful